Wednesday evenings are for spinning - at least most Wednesdays. I find that setting this time aside, spinning with other reasonably serious spinners puts me with like minded people. Our only connection is fiber. I like them very much - many of us serve on the SAFF board of directors. Kim took this picture last night. She had just resolved an thorny issue with the IRS and had declared it Best Day EVER! Our expressions say the same thing!
But tonight's fiber group is completely different. We are a group of women who have dinner together once a month to eat, sometimes have wine and talk about life. Sometimes work, frequently relationships, occassionally fiber. One woman is an amazing quilter who crochets. Another is a very talented production weaver who dyes multi-colored warps & teaches lots of workshops. The third likes about everything fiber and bead related. She quilts and sews and crochets, maybe knits a little. I think of myself as a spinner who dyes and knits. We all have busy lives, work hard and came together through the music and dance scene.
We have lost a couple of members because of work commitments (if you are a special ed teacher who starts at 7:30 am, it's hard to carve out a week night - even if it's only once a month) and family responsibilities. Anther person just didn't mesh with the group and stopped coming.
Sadly for us & happily for her, one of our group is moving away. She has been one of our leaders so it is very difficult to lose her. We will be down to 3 and I'm not sure that that is enough to keep the momentum going. But we are slow to invite new people. We have invented a good bit of ourselves in this group and talk about our lives and families - the good and the bad. One woman has gone through a particularly difficult divorce and this has been a safe outlet for her. We can't just bring in anyone.
So I guess that our group will have to figure it out. With a few months before our amazing quilter (with the cutest dogs and the cleanest house!) leaves us, we will simply continue to share meals and lives and fiber!
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